One of my friends posted something recently about how Facebook is the place where you complain about life all year long but in November you post things for which you are grateful.
It's true, this is the time of year we get a lot of "pay it forward" and "random acts of kindness" crap that should be showing up in our August or February or other months of the year. But to be honest, I like living in a world where tens of thousands of people lined the streets of San Francisco to help a five year old realize his dream of being Batman for a day.
Then there are the little acts people don't see en masse that make a huge difference in just a life or two.
Yesterday my husband and I grabbed a late breakfast (probably it should be called brunch because of the time we ate) at a local greasy spoon we hadn't been to in years. They were starting to close up when the cab driver for one of the patrons came in to let her know he was there. She was an older woman and getting up to get out the door was a chore for her. One of the waitress, who appeared to be high school aged, stopped what she was doing. She helped the woman up and then took the time to walk her to the curb and helped her into the cab.
It took quite some time as the woman had difficulty moving. She did so in a way that was more of a companion, preserving the woman's dignity by clearly chatting with the woman as she shuffled along.
My first though was how much it said about the girl who, instead of rushing to get out the door, took the five or so minutes to walk an older woman to her cab safely. That she did it with grace was touching and it spoke volumes about the restaurant itself that other people picked up her tasks without saying a word. It truly was teamwork.
Further, they didn't rush the last few of us stragglers either. They offered us more coffee (free refills I should add) and made sure we were comfortable.
There were no twitter feeds, news cameras or headlines for what that young girl did but it is certainly worthy of celebration.
So today, instead of posting something you're grateful for on Facebook, take action. Make whatever you do be something someone else would be grateful for on Facebook. Then do it again and again and again because you never know who is watching.
My husband and I have a new breakfast place now because any place that would hire that staff is a place we want to patronize.